tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post3851617139475312415..comments2023-10-24T01:21:54.252+04:00Comments on Sujata: of minor things....sujata senguptahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13101153080266818022noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-16150051014529110832010-04-24T02:21:26.693+04:002010-04-24T02:21:26.693+04:00love to cry - THANKS MAA!!!
hi.. just forgive ur ...love to cry - THANKS MAA!!!<br /><br />hi.. just forgive ur husband.. he in endanger your relation for the sake of a new relation.. let him panic on the love on you..<br /><br />sorry for the humilitation (may be sort of doctors)<br /><br />may write more - but this is not the place..<br /><br />just loved u - ur writing..arvindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04560344299676056721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-52448797799615697082010-04-19T14:58:58.707+04:002010-04-19T14:58:58.707+04:00It's something that we all go through, eh? The...It's something that we all go through, eh? The first time was really hard. Quite embarrassing, actually! Loved the way you described it in your post.RGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15279590663523317849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-47251466808825376682010-04-13T20:00:30.955+04:002010-04-13T20:00:30.955+04:00thankssssssss my dear friend:)thankssssssss my dear friend:)R. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-53414523863859353392010-04-13T09:38:45.109+04:002010-04-13T09:38:45.109+04:00@Debopam Chaudhuri I am sure Sushree felt the same...@Debopam Chaudhuri I am sure Sushree felt the same emotions like all of the delivering mothers do..its anxious paranoia!!<br /><br />@SDR Not only does the father claim the fruit of labour, the in laws point out in joy how much the kid resembles the dad!! talk about fuelling the volcano..and then they say moms go through post delivery depression..!!sujata senguptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13101153080266818022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-3019408929189546432010-04-12T18:13:13.775+04:002010-04-12T18:13:13.775+04:00This is an overall experience to be lived atleast ...This is an overall experience to be lived atleast once.. the expectation .. the joy.. the worries... everything put in the package!<br />Some does it many times. I wonder if they relive the same experience over and over again or it becomes a routine.<br />But I would agree that it is the mother who labours and the father who proudly claim the fruit of that labour.....Sumandebrayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02586879310421521711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-60530497128512403422010-04-12T12:02:52.465+04:002010-04-12T12:02:52.465+04:00Hmmm! Difficult subject! I cannot say what i feel!...Hmmm! Difficult subject! I cannot say what i feel! Really knowing and feeling are two different things here! And remebering my 'husbandhood' days in the same period for my wife Sushree, I feel the 'lajja' in the way she used to hold my hand on our way home in delhi after her check ups!! Words fall short on these occasions!<br />And I believe (as I have felt it as well) a rage similar to yours is bulging inside Sushree as well!Debopam Chaudhurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09893289118462508159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-30257382698145428402010-04-11T16:41:37.514+04:002010-04-11T16:41:37.514+04:00thanks su:)thanks su:)R. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-84556453090626129542010-04-10T08:23:59.286+04:002010-04-10T08:23:59.286+04:00@BK Chowla 'lajja' is ingrained in me.
@Z...@BK Chowla 'lajja' is ingrained in me.<br /><br />@ZB I am sure you understand. Esp after your own experience of the pre surgery proceedings!<br /><br />@Indranil wow!! I went and checked your famous orkut albums for the first time after reading this comment, and there she was.."Misha" her smile says it all!! I think Shes just beautiful and loved by both of you. Mousumi Boudi is very pretty!<br /><br />@The Holy Lama the first time, I was in labour for more than 11 hours and the doctor ultimately told me that if the baby was not out withing the next 5 mins she would take me into the OT for a C-section, I guess, imagine having both the labour pains and all the post c-section worries..fortunately, fortunately my daughter decided she would not trouble me more and came out.<br /><br />@Neel thanks, they shout at you and its a common term!<br /><br />@Deeps thanks, I managed to scare girls and make the men squirm..so dont think any publisher would be willing to publish a book on parenthood by me..<br /><br />@Sorcerer lol!sujata senguptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13101153080266818022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-60457071508442227202010-04-09T11:13:26.874+04:002010-04-09T11:13:26.874+04:00*faints
A very good post!
:)*faints<br />A very good post!<br />:)Sorcererhttp://www.evilsfury.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-36215106733763746342010-04-08T20:07:56.928+04:002010-04-08T20:07:56.928+04:00sure.. spot on..
money wont be what it is meant to...sure.. spot on..<br />money wont be what it is meant to be if not spent for the proper purpose...<br /><br />hey i think it s time you seriously thought about bringing out a book on motherhood or related topic...<br />just look at those few posts you have written... wow!!deepshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15296902414799985603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-76892040826501121552010-04-08T17:23:48.817+04:002010-04-08T17:23:48.817+04:00The "Sonography ka pati"...is sooo amusi...The "Sonography ka pati"...is sooo amusing!!!Neelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00350096295373076541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-39477747932180611902010-04-08T13:59:11.441+04:002010-04-08T13:59:11.441+04:00Two kids through C section. So, I shall never know...Two kids through C section. So, I shall never know this. But I have a different set where it is not dilating, you have pain, They put a belt around the belly to read baby's heartbeats, someone gives you an injection, another prepares you, someone tries put the catheter in for urine passage....Can't say which is worse. Pain after the ordeal once the pain killers are off, a scar, Bad suturing, muscles lax...The Holy Lamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386836612848424194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-18372218130948426652010-04-08T05:10:54.318+04:002010-04-08T05:10:54.318+04:00Possibly written in retrospect but reads like a li...Possibly written in retrospect but reads like a live commentary from a ante-room of the gynaecologist's den....<br /><br />well... we have had not the opportunity of going through this ritual, so really dont know if we missed this life-changing syndrome or was it best avoided but no regrets...<br /><br />possibly motherhood or even parent hood manifests itself in various ways, so waiting for the physio to do her rounds mechanically or waiting in the closed chamber of an adoption agencey, the feelings are the same. just that the physical atrributes are not present. of course in ceratin ways its a different ball game but some where there is a strong common platform which unifies the feeling.<br /><br />so patiently waiting beneath a life size poster of "adoption-the only option" i am sure my M went through the same apprehensions and feelings till it culminatd in a 6-month old m joining us.... and even i played the role of the fumbling husband to perfection.... so perfect that i missed out on an attempt to get the mobile number of the buxom lady who was taking care of the reception.... some people never change..... previously it was M who would scream out, "ufff!! tumi thambey" now m screams, " baba !! stop it".... Life is beautifull !!indranilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11259432457347669885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-71272183103391225952010-04-07T17:08:40.404+04:002010-04-07T17:08:40.404+04:00:D,,,LOLS....I understand this post of urs fully, ...:D,,,LOLS....I understand this post of urs fully, my wife shares the same thoughts.....and i have been her companion in several pap smears and other tests....But it happens with men too.<br /><br />I had a cardio-thoracic surgery few years back, and in the process got my whole body shaved by one serial-killer lookalike hospital barber....when he reached the genitals i was sure he would do a bobit-job on me. I was so shit-scared....but i know pregnancy tests can be worse....as my wife explains. TC , loved reading this:)ZBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02447730465256670305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-81813746459262880952010-04-07T15:35:32.031+04:002010-04-07T15:35:32.031+04:00u should have seen that poor Gangurde sujata...he ...u should have seen that poor Gangurde sujata...he was baashed up so many times by wife and v used to rescue him..anywy..cheers and best wishes friendR. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-78648981039213273422010-04-07T09:02:44.091+04:002010-04-07T09:02:44.091+04:00I think "lajja" could have remained out ...I think "lajja" could have remained out of this.BK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-36610066501592353192010-04-07T08:14:41.112+04:002010-04-07T08:14:41.112+04:00@Anamika Sureka dont worry you will sooner or late...@Anamika Sureka dont worry you will sooner or later join the gang!!<br /><br />@Destiny's Child truly you have no clue dear!!<br /><br />@Indrani yah same old! same old!<br /><br />@Meira save those emotions for when the doc screams "Push!!" <br /><br />@Kavi remeber this post when you wait at similar surroundings with the missus!! Maybe you will ask her more sensible stuff..<br /><br />@Aparna LOL!! its out of my system now...you come out with your tidbits as well.<br /><br />@Kavita and what a showtime it is..!!<br /><br />@Jyothi Moms are known to behave strangely under duress... no wonder she said that to you!!<br /><br />@Nikita Banerjee Yah, our bio teacher, poor thing, had no access to videos and so she coined the phrase"coconut out of your nostril" the guys laughed mercilessly and the gals had sleepless nights for months!!<br /><br /><br />@Gymnast We dont gain much courage but we have no options you see, but to deliver, cannot keep carrying the baby eternally..so we lose it a bit and do the needful!!sujata senguptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13101153080266818022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-68242921456847561952010-04-07T06:12:46.323+04:002010-04-07T06:12:46.323+04:00OK...so now you've scared all of us enough!
I...OK...so now you've scared all of us enough!<br /><br />I've only seen videos of deliveries during bio class in school.<br /><br />I guess we all just gain the courage when we come to it!Gymnasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05468640996264277554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-2966325297178615172010-04-06T23:02:49.176+04:002010-04-06T23:02:49.176+04:00Good lord! I remember being in the psychology lect...Good lord! I remember being in the psychology lecture where they should us a video of a woman delivering a child! I was out of my wits...so dreading it ya!<br /><br />Mothers are so brave!Irehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02225452291299150178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-72154754315446079732010-04-06T16:41:34.540+04:002010-04-06T16:41:34.540+04:00Ha ha...oh my God! Being a woman who has also gone...Ha ha...oh my God! Being a woman who has also gone through two such ordeals, I have the right to laugh!<br /><br />Perfect description. Thanks for reminding me of those horrors. Lajja...he he...<br /><br />I refused to let the male doc enter the room. My mom and hubby were like, please let him check, please let him check, what is wrong with you?? I mean...What kind of a question is that? But I had to give in, since my son's heartbeat was slowing, and the faster he examined me, the faster my son would be out safe!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-58690755201667522722010-04-06T16:23:21.572+04:002010-04-06T16:23:21.572+04:00Haaaahaaa.Ask me ehhhh !!All those infertility tre...Haaaahaaa.Ask me ehhhh !!All those infertility treatments for eight long years,so finally when it was SHOW TIME...it was a piece of cake.But girls don't fear mammograms ,pap smears...we need to do it for our health.<br /><br /> Sujata,write more often girl.Completely enjoyed this one.Kavita Sahariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11342095914702911870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-55226353037783123642010-04-06T16:06:12.251+04:002010-04-06T16:06:12.251+04:00Hahahahahahahaha!!! Let me laugh first and then I ...Hahahahahahahaha!!! Let me laugh first and then I will comment :)<br /><br />You left out some interesting parts. You should have been more explicit...that would have left your men readers a bit more guilty and the women readers a bit more scared.<br />As for me, I'm still counting the number of times I felt totally, absolutely humiliated. Why the hell did we go through it? We needed our heads examined and not our girl parts.Aparnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05527786215758008556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-85768397102990979192010-04-06T14:50:54.590+04:002010-04-06T14:50:54.590+04:00Goosebumps all around.Goosebumps all around.Kavihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11426040093753611098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-22852768698996072252010-04-06T14:49:55.391+04:002010-04-06T14:49:55.391+04:00GULP.GULP.GULP! PANIC PANIC PANIC! phew! really? I...GULP.GULP.GULP! PANIC PANIC PANIC! phew! really? I mean really really? Not joking, are you? :PMeirahttp://happyhoursbeginhere.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5185628907611074934.post-44235600229278987352010-04-06T12:38:30.646+04:002010-04-06T12:38:30.646+04:00hmmm... reminded of everything that I went through...hmmm... reminded of everything that I went through... the stories aren't different. :)Indranihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13097788106899971708noreply@blogger.com